Bocce -- it's not just a game played by older men.

"It has a stereotype that I'm trying to dispel," says Peter Rabito, 47, president of American Bocce Club in Huntington. The league has about 50 members in their 20s to 60s, up about 25 percent from last year.

Bocce is somewhat similar to bowling. Players roll a roughly 2-pound ball down a narrow court -- but instead of knocking down pins, players take turns trying to land it as near as possible to a smaller ball (called the pallino). Such a challenge is part of the universal appeal, says Rabito. "Everyone thinks it's the easiest thing to do," he says, but "it's not that easy."

That's because the target ball might be 70 or more feet away. Strategic players might knock one of their opponent's balls off course or aim to hit the pallino away from it altogether. "I think people tend to get hooked," Rabito says. "It's such a great game."


On a sunny Thursday evening, more than 30 people gather in Southampton at four bocce courts. Some squat, pitching the ball low to ground, while others prefer a little loft in the air. There's a healthy amount of clapping, "oohing" and "ahhing" after each ball is rolled -- especially when it cracks against an opponent's.

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This is the Southampton Bocce Club, a league of more than 140 people ranging in age from their early 20s to 89. "It's a simple game that anybody who never touched a bocce ball can learn in 15 minutes," says league president Steve Marciw, 84, of Southampton.

Despite the friendly competition, there's a keen attention to detail. At one point, a referee is called to the court. He gauges the distance between two opposing team balls and the pallino with a tape measure. "Sometimes when you look at it, it looks like it's close," says Noris Luri, 75, of Hampton Bays. "But there may be a very tiny difference."

And that difference translates to who gets to 12 points first to win the game. Players earn double points when their ball touches the pallino -- aptly called a kiss (or "bacio" in Italian). It's a coveted move, one that Sal Ficara Sr., 89, of Sag Harbor nailed right after a fellow teammate. The other team? "They couldn't believe it," he says. "They didn't feel they got kissed at all!"



Bocce League

WHEN | WHERE 5:30-8:40 p.m. Tuesdays and 5:30-7 p.m. Thursdays at Southampton Youth Services Inc., 1370 Majors Path, Southampton

INFO 631-283-1290

COST $20 per season.

Next season starts May 2013

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American Bocce Club

WHEN | WHERE 7:30 p.m. Wednesdays at Mill Dam Park, Huntington

INFO 631-807-4030,

COST $40 per season.


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Here's a look at a few places that offer bocce and lend equipment.

Bay Park

WHEN | WHERE Dawn until dusk, 198 First Ave., East Rockaway

INFO 516-571-7245,

PARKING Free for Nassau residents, $10 nonresidents weekends and holidays

Bethpage State Park

WHEN | WHERE 7 a.m.-5 p.m. daily, 99 Quaker Meeting House Rd., Farmingdale

INFO 516-249-0701,


North Hempstead

Beach Park

WHEN | WHERE 9 a.m.-dusk through Labor Day, West Shore Rd., Port Washington

INFO 516-869-6311,

PARKING $15 Nassau residents ($20 nonresidents)

Valley Stream State Park

WHEN | WHERE 8 a.m.-4 p.m. weekdays, 10 a.m.-6 p.m. weekends, 45 North Fletcher Ave., North Valley Stream

INFO 516-825-4128,