Henican is a columnist for Newsday. He also is a political analyst at the Fox News Channel and Show More
It's nothing compared with the pounding grief visited so cruelly on Amanda Berry, Michelle Knight, Gina DeJesus and their families. But this much is already painfully obvious: the victims go far beyond the three young women held in squalid captivity for a decade.
How can his own mother possibly explain any of this to herself and her family, much less to the outside world? She offered her earliest attempts as she pulled her car out of her driveway and rolled the window down.
"I am a mother in a lot of pain," she said. "I'm sorry for what my son has done."
She is apparently one of the few who had seen Amanda Berry's daughter -- fathered by her son, according to DNA tests. Little Jocelyn, now 6, reportedly called the older woman "grandmother."
Where did she believe this child had come from? Where did she think the girl went at night? There are questions, thousands of horrible questions, and Lillian Rodriguez didn't get very far in answering them. This Mother's Day, three families are celebrating the end to an unspeakable ordeal, and one mother is trying in vain to apologize for it.
"I'll tell you," she said. "I have a sick son who has committed something very grave. I ask forgiveness from those mothers. May those ladies forgive me."
It was a start, but just barely.
1. Try to explain.
2. Hope to change.
3. Teach to avoid.
4. Accept the shame.
5. Just apologize.
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