ASK AMY: Dating a co-worker can affect your career

Amy Dickinson | Ask Amy

May 13, 2008

DEAR AMY: I have a really good job that I truly love going to. The company I work for allows employees to learn other jobs. I recently started learning a new position in the company, and I have developed a crush on the person who is training me. I have fun with him, but there is a big age difference (about 12 years). I am not sure how far to take this, but I believe he likes me as well. I never have dated anyone I work with, and I am not sure if it is a good idea. Please help.

Wondering at Work

DEAR WONDERING: Before you make any sudden moves, check your company's policy about workplace relationships. For instance, if your crush is in a supervisory position or will become your supervisor after your training, entering into a romance with him could mean you will be reassigned.

Workplace crushes and relationships can be terrific - if for no other reason than they get you to enthusiastically rush into work. However, these relationships can have an impact on your career.

If the two of you are single and available, then by all means let your crush grow, but do so with the knowledge that there are inevitable consequences.

If you two hit it off, the age factor won't be insurmountable.

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