TODAY'S PAPER
29° Good Morning
29° Good Morning
LifestyleFamily

Using Skype to stay connected with family

Skype is a great alternative tool to help

Skype is a great alternative tool to help you stay connected with parents, siblings, grandparents or other family members who live out of town but would like to reach out and “see” the faces of their loved ones Credit: Fotolia

There are myriad tools available today for parents and children to stay connected, from old-fashioned phone calls — although my 16-year-old swears teens use cellphones only to text and use other apps, NOT to make phone calls — to texting, Facebook-ing and even tweeting.

Tech-savvy kids have forced their parents to get up to speed on technology, including using another popular tool, Skype, a free VoIP (Voice over Internet Protocol) program that allows users to communicate by voice, video and instant messaging over the Internet. My hubby, kids and I use Skype to stay in touch with my sister and family who moved overseas earlier this year and with our in-laws in Canada and India. You can download the software on your computer or mobile device (see skype.com for details).

Modern families can use Skype as an alternative tool to stay connected to parents, siblings, grandparents or other family members who live out of town but would like to reach out and “see” the faces of their loved ones. Teens away at college or kids away at sleepover camp (if the facility allows it) no longer have an excuse to avoid mom or dad. Skype can especially be a handy tool for families separated by divorce. Recent media reports have claimed that Tom Cruise chats with daughter Suri on Skype as part of the divorce settlement with Katie Holmes.

“Research has shown that children of separated parents fare far better when their parents stay involved and in close communication with them. Any tool, such as Skype, that helps in that endeavor, is a good thing,” says Ada L. Hasloecher, mediator and center founder of Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC, in Melville.

"Staying in touch with family, especially in times when stressors are greater, is phenomenally easy with Skype," says Sandra Jo Lane, a psychotherapist in Dix Hills. "Family and friends feel tremendously reassured to be able to be 'with' loved ones, even if only virtually."

Do you use Sykpe to stay in touch with your loved ones?

More Family