Though she learned how to ride horses in her 30s, Marci Gorenkoff gave up the sport to raise her children.
With her kids now grown, Gorenkoff, 62, of Woodbury, is back in the saddle, getting hands-on lessons at DDR Farm in Melville, where she’s learning not only how to ride, but also to care for horses.
"It’s better to learn when you’re young," advises Gorenkoff, who’s had to get beyond fears, but absolutely loves the sport.
"There is nothing like it," she says. "If I trot, I love how it feels to be moving on a horse and trying to learn its rhythm."
FIRST STOP: Overcoming Fears
Adults first timers are way more fearful than children in general, says Diana Russo, owner of DDR Farm. "Things just don’t happen as easily for you when you take them up as an older person," she says. "For children, if they’re a little nervous, once that horse starts walking and they feel the rhythm of it, they get a smile on their face. It’s easy for them."
Anyone can learn to ride a horse, says Vinny Russo, owner of Babylon Riding Center in West Babylon.
"But the main factor is you can’t be afraid of the horse," he says.
Thus, Vinny prescribes getting to know a horse up close before actually going out to ride it.
"If you have no fear factor, you get on a horse and you can ride a lot faster than somebody that has just a little fear in them," he explains.
Once riders become proficient, there’s a seamless connection between horse and rider, he says.
"When you’re on a horse and you know what you’re doing, you’re actually part of the horse."
GETTING STARTED: Grooming Essential
Vinny generally recommends lessons for children no younger than six years of age, unless they’ve been doing other activities, such as dance or music lessons, which generally indicates that they have greater attention spans.
"I don’t want to charge the family $55 [for the half-hour] or $85 for the hour — private — and it’s just a glorified pony ride," he says.
Some parents want their kids to start as young as four years old, he notes.
"I tell them, I believe they’re too young, but come down, we’ll start with a pony ride and I’ll see," he says. "Some children comprehend quickly, and some kids don’t."
Riding is just a small part of the relationship with the horse, says Diana.
"A lot of our program we do spend a lot of time on the ground and give a lot of information about horse behavior, how to relate to your horse and grooming is part of that," she says, adding, "It’s a really important bonding experience."
The first half of a 30-minute private lesson for a child at the Babylon center starts on the ground with an instructor in a grooming stall, letting the child get up close, touching and brushing the horse or pony. For an adult, Russo advises an hourlong lesson, following the same game plan.
"They get to see that a horse shaking his head or stamping his foot, swishing his tail is all something that a horse does naturally and I believe it takes care of a lot of the fear factor," he says.
The second half of the lesson entails a formal riding lesson in the indoor arena.
"Once they have a lot of the basics down, and they have balance and they can control the horse, then we suggest maybe going into a class where there’s anywhere from four to six people in the class," Vinny says.
LEARNING STYLES: Western vs. English
There are two basic riding styles: English and Western.
Developed to chase foxes, English style riding entails saddles that are lighter and built for speed, Diana explains. Western saddles, which have a horn for a cowboy to hang a rope on, were developed for long hours of cattle work.
English riding does require more physical ability in the beginning, Russo explains.
"You have to get your balance very independent of the equipment. It’s basically you and your horse very close together," she says.
DDR recommends learning English style first, to establish a sense of balance on the horse, and then switching over to Western, for slow paced, leisurely riding.
DRESSING THE PART: Gear to Get
First timers should wear long pants and shoes with flat heels, such as rubber rain boots or work boots, Diana says.
"We recommend trying to avoid sneakers because you need a little bit of a heel, so your foot doesn’t go all the way through the stirrup," she says.
Once people commit to riding, DDR will send them to a tack shop to purchase paddock boots and an approved riding helmet — which is different from a bicycle helmet.
For entry-level riding you don’t need much else, other than some grooming brushes, Diana says.
And, it takes no time at all to become proficient at the sport, notes Vinny: Becoming a pleasure rider, where you can control the horse and comfortably trot along, typically takes about 20 lessons.
LEARN TO RIDE
Here are a sampling of the many riding centers in Nassau and Suffolk.
Babylon Riding Center, 1500 Peconic Ave., West Babylon; 631-587-7778, babylonridingcenterny.com. Open daily, 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.; reservations required. Cost: $55 per half-hour lesson; $85 per hour — for all ages
DDR Farm, 412 Sweet Hollow Road, Melville; 631-616-9656, ddrfarm.com. Open daily by appointment. Cost: $80 per hour lesson; $60 per half-hour lesson for kids up to age 6. Get a 10% discount for group of 10 lessons.
Bethpage Equestian Center, 499 Winding Rd., Old Bethpage, 516-845-1000. Trail rides and lessons with advance reservations. Features 3 lighted rings, indoor ring, trail rides through Bethpage State Park, boarding, horse leasing and sales, summer camp, pony rides, parties. Private, semiprivate and group lessons.
North Shore Equestrian Center, LIU Post campus, Northern Boulevard, Brookville, 516-626-9714, northshoreequestriancenter.com. Features 35 lesson horses, indoor arena, 2 lighted rings, boarding available. Summer camp programs available, call for information. Cost: Private lessons $140 an hour, $75 half-hour; minimum age 6.