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Gay NYC judge challenges father's will

A gay man and his longtime partner decide to become parents using a surrogate mother. Shortly after their son is born, the couple gets married. But there's a catch for this modern family: A will left by the man's wealthy father decrees that he must marry the mother for the child to collect an inheritance.

That quandary has prompted the man, Manhattan Criminal Court Judge Robert M. Mandelbaum, to contest the will in Surrogate's Court.

Mandelbaum has filed a petition on behalf of his now 2-year-old son, Cooper, that argues that a condition that might "induce the beneficiary to enter into a sham marriage of convenience" should be invalid.

The petition makes two further arguments: that Mandelbaum's partner could be considered the boy's "mother," and that excluding the boy from sharing in the family fortune would run counter to public policies protecting same-sex marriages and their offspring.

The petition portrays the father as being accepting of his son. But the will doesn't make clear why the father appeared to contradict that when it came to his estate. An attorney for Mandelbaum declined to comment.

The elder Mandelbaum's will set up a trust worth hundreds of thousands of dollars. A proposed settlement reached by Mandelbaum and the guardians of two other grandchildren that would give equal stakes in the trust set up by the grandfather is pending court approval, though it could be a long shot.

Joshua S. Rubenstein, a Manhattan lawyer specializing in estate planning, said decedents have a right to shun possible beneficiaries -- whether it's because they have two fathers or because they married someone of a different race or any other reason that might sound unreasonable or even cruel.

"We might all find that repugnant, but it's your property and you can do whatever you want with it," Rubenstein said.

Mandelbaum, 47, is the son of Frank Mandelbaum, a successful Long Island businessman who died in 2007. The father was chairman and chief executive of Intelli-Check, a Woodbury-based maker of software that verifies the authenticity of driver's licenses and other forms of identification.

According to court documents, Mandelbaum is the biological father of Cooper, who was born in Pomona, Calif., on April 5, 2010. The boy was conceived using Mandelbaum's sperm to fertilize an egg from an anonymous donor that was then implanted in the uterus of a second woman.

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