If they die, who gets the kids?
DEAR AMY: My wife and I are deadlocked over a critical issue. We have, after years of procrastinating, tried to put our estate in order. With two minor children, we must choose people who would become their guardians if my wife and I both died. We might as well be the Red Sox and the Yankees. She wants her brother and sister-in-law, who live out of state, to be our choice. While I have issues with...