Jennifer Lopez says she has a new approach to finding a man

In her memoir, "True Love," Jennifer Lopez reveals that she couldn't make her dreams of the perfect relationship come true.

"Love proved elusive. But I kept trying. If I could make so many of my dreams come true, why not this," Lopez wrote after ending her marriage to Marc Anthony. Now, after learning to love and respect herself, Lopez, 45, told Hollywood Life she has a new approach to finding a man.

"When I meet someone that I'm attracted to or have chemistry with, I'm going to take my time and make sure that it's the right person. That they're whole too," she said. "I'm making sure I'm whole first. Then together we can add to each other's happiness."

Lopez adds that she rushed into marriage with Anthony, after her breakup with Ben Affleck. She writes that she didn't want to "be alone" at that point and Anthony was her "knight in shining armor."

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