Tip: How's Mom doing? It's a good idea to find out

You may be spending time with an elderly mom tomorrow, or perhaps you're the husband of a mom welcoming your children and grandchildren into your home. This might be a good time not only to ask the question "How's Mom doing?" but try to get some answers.

Here is a checklist to help identify potential problems, according to

A Silver Connection, a Chicago-based eldercare referral service:

Is Mom showing signs of short-term memory loss or confusion?

Does she look different or are there any worrying changes in personal hygiene?

Does her home look dirty or cluttered?

Are there piles of unopened bills and other mail?

Is there spoiled food around?

If you notice any of these signs, schedule a checkup with a doctor.