Adam Cifka and Meagan Kolakowski on their wedding day.

Adam Cifka and Meagan Kolakowski on their wedding day. Credit: ADA Studio

There was always a spark between Meagan Kolakowski and Adam Cifka — but it took the pandemic to bring them together.

The two met in 2018 through a mutual friend while they were both competing in a Spartan Race in Old Bethpage. Kolakowski, now 30, said she was in a relationship at the time but the pair hit it off and stayed friends. Both athletes who run competitively for fun, they became so close that they referred to each other as “race husband and wife,” Kolakowski said.

“I always had this attraction for him, but it never worked out timing-wise,” she said.

Then the pandemic happened. At home with nowhere to go, Kolakowski’s thoughts turned to Cifka. Mustering up her courage, she messaged him over Instagram and they talked all night, she said. Shortly after, they met up for a socially distant walk that lasted four hours.

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“I was pleasantly surprised,” Cifka, 33, said. “I never would have reached out first, so I was really happy she did.”

After that walk, the friends quickly became a couple.

About one year later, on Sept. 18, 2021, Cifka surprised Kolakowski by proposing at the Bay Shore Manor Park pier. As a new couple, they had met there every Sunday morning to eat bagels and talk about their week.

Cifka had been planning the proposal for months, he said, arranging for his parents and sister, and Kolakowski’s aunt and her best friend to be there. He timed it for just around sunset.

“The only thing I didn’t plan was what to say, but I knew that would come. I was extremely nervous, but it was one of the best moments of my life,” he said.

And there was more to come: The couple married on Sept. 15, 2023. Then one month later, they welcomed a baby boy.

“It was quite a year for us!” Kolakowski said.

Adam Cifka and Meagan Kolakowski celebrating at their reception.

Adam Cifka and Meagan Kolakowski celebrating at their reception. Credit: ADA Studio

WEDDING VENUE

The couple wed and held their reception at East Wind Long Island in Wading River.

WINE AND DINE

East Wind Long Island catered the reception. 

HONEYMOON

The couple honeymooned in Philadelphia after finding out in February 2023, before the wedding, that they were expecting their first child.

LET'S DANCE

"Dressed Up in White" by Cal

FAVE RAVES

Five things Kolakowski loves about her spouse: How he makes her laugh, how he fits in with her friends and family, how dedicated he is to her and their son, his cooking and how he always supports her. Five things Cifka loves about his spouse: Her infectious energy, her heart, her sense of humor, her support and how they can "talk about anything"

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