Give generously, however you can

At this time reserved for joy and merriment, this year brings more challenges than cheer for many Long Islanders.

The government shutdown illustrated in stark ways just how many fellow Long Islanders are living on the edge, navigating how to pay for increasing food, housing, utility and medical costs, and more. Others aren't sure how to pay for a few toys for their children for the holidays. Some are working multiple jobs or cutting corners for themselves just to make ends meet. 

It's a critical time for Long Island's charitable organizations, for food pantries and shelters, for housing organizations and family advocacy groups, and for those who deal with alcohol and drug dependency or mental health concerns. As people lean on them, they'll need support from us.

This is a time to give — and give generously. Area restaurants and grocery stores showed up so clearly during the shutdown, offering meals and gift cards to those who needed them. Support those local establishments so they can continue to directly feed those in their communities who need a meal.

Donate to the local food banks Long Island Cares or Island Harvest, or provide warm clothing to a shelter or homeless services agency. Consider participating in one of the cleanup campaigns sponsored by environmental groups. Or, buy an extra toy for drives like those sponsored by the Marine Toys for Tots Foundation. For some, it's easier to provide funds, for others, it's about giving time to volunteer for whatever cause is important to them.

This year in particular, our sense of giving could be profoundly deeply rewarding. Use this time, as the skies darken earlier and the air chills, to reach out to neighbors and friends, to check in and show you care. So many of us are experiencing a sense of fragility, uncertainty and deep concern.

These emotional roller coasters intensify during the holidays, as relationships with family and friends are tested. Others feel pangs of grief for departed loved ones more intensely. Some people may feel completely alone, broken, scared. Sometimes, all we need to do is reach out a hand or offer a shoulder. Text or call someone you haven't spoken to in a while to say hello. Approach a neighbor to send good wishes and see what they need. Work with your church, synagogue, mosque or other organization to make sure your fellow community members receive the care and attention they need. 

And if you are among the many who need some help, you're not alone. Long Islanders will show up and will be there. All you have to do is ask.