Small Business: Letting go of bad clients

In this economic climate, it may seem counterintuitive to end a client relationship. But in many cases, that's exactly what your business needs to do, particularly if a client becomes a drain on your time, patience and resources.

Not every client is going to be the perfect fit, and it's better to let them go sooner than later so you can free up your time to develop more fruitful business relationships, say experts.

"It's like a bad marriage; when you're in one you know it," says Howard Shore, president of Activate Group Inc., a business consulting and coaching firm in Miami. "It's best to sever ties before you hate each other."

Shore speaks from experience. "Usually within 90 days I know," he says. He grew one client's business "100 percent" in 90 days, he says; then the client proceeded to tell him they hadn't seen any value in his efforts.

It can be hard to be too selective in a down economy, and sometimes inevitably you accept arrangements you normally wouldn't have.

This was the case for Adrian Miller of Adrian Miller Sales Training in Port Washington, who accepted a lower fee structure than usual with one client and now may have to terminate that relationship.

The amount of work she agreed to provide has grown in scope, and the client refuses to increase the fee structure or negotiate the scope of work.

Fortunately, Miller has had to terminate only a handful of clients in 24 years. She tries to address the problem with the client first, to see if they can reach an amicable agreement.

When ending a relationship, she does so in person and gives at least a month's notice, says Miller, noting she never gets personal and also offers to provide a recommendation for an alternate resource.

You don't need to get too specific on a reason when ending a relationship, notes Don Hochler, principal at Don L. Hochler Pc in East Meadow, a law firm specializing in medical practice acquisition and commercial collections. You can generalize and say you don't have as much time to devote to their work, he says.

"Try to be as generic and benign as possible," he notes.

Depending upon the situation, when you don't give in to excessive or unrealistic requests, the troublesome client often knows a split is coming, says Kelly McCormick, a business coach, speaker and author in Malibu, Calif. She once terminated an overdemanding client who wasn't willing to pay for additional services. The client responded to the split by saying, "Well, I was just trying to see what else I could get."

McCormick recommends using the sandwich approach when firing a client: sandwiching a goodbye between two feel-good messages (see an example at outsellyourself.com).

Don't fingerpoint.

"You're taking responsibility for it," she notes.

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