At 16, ready to tell folks about sex

You should go to your physician or to Planned Parenthood for a checkup and STD and birth control counseling. If you're unable to go together, you should not be in a sexual relationship. Check

plannedparenthood.org or call 800-230-PLAN (7526) for a local clinic.

The reason your parents might not trust you is because they were your age once and they know how physically and emotionally vulnerable you both are. Your parents have the utmost stake in your emotional and physical health.

Your desire to talk to your folks about this tells me that you have a good relationship and simply want to be honest. Share this, but remember: Your honesty will inspire their honest reaction. They may be very upset. But if they are thoughtful, they will appreciate the opportunity to talk it through with you.