His racist rant tests her tolerance

If these expressions have genuinely changed the way you feel about him, then you don't have to ask me about deal breakers.

But if you can demonstrate your own values (namely tolerance and the ability to imagine a person evolving and changing his views), then you might have the pleasure of seeing someone change in a radical, genuine and heartfelt way.

Now that you have declared where the line is drawn, you both know what the deal is.