Obama: Gay couples deserve same rights

Treading carefully, President Barack Obama praised New York State lawmakers who were debating landmark legislation yesterday to legalize gay marriage, saying that's what democracy's all about. But as expected, the president stopped short of embracing same-sex marriage himself, instead asking gay and lesbian donors for patience.

"I believe that gay couples deserve the same legal rights as every other couple in this country," the president said at a Manhattan fundraiser last night, his first geared specifically to the gay community.

The debate in Albany served to spotlight the president's own views on same-sex marriage, a sore point with gay supporters who've otherwise warmed to Obama. The president has said his views are "evolving," but for now he supports civil unions, not same-sex marriage.

Obama said progress will be slower than some people want, but he added that he was confident that there will be a day "when every single American, gay or straight or lesbian or bisexual or transgender, is free to live and love as they see fit."

As Obama spoke a handful of people shouted out "marriage!" And Obama said, "I heard you guys." He never directly mentioned gay marriage.

Obama said there were those who shouted at him at events about other causes of the gay community, such as the need for anti-hate crimes legislation and for the repeal of the "don't ask, don't tell" ban on openly gay military service, and both of those have since been achieved.

Obama also has won favor by instructing the Justice Department to stop defending in court a law defining marriage as between a man and a woman.

Overall the reaction Obama got was warm from the crowd of nearly 600 who paid up to $35,800 each to hear him speak at a midtown hotel. A small group of protesters showed up to demonstrate outside for marriage equality.

Later, Obama went to see "Sister Act," joined by the producer, actress Whoopi Goldberg, and young Democratic donors.

Earlier Thursday he visited upstate Fort Drum to thank the Army's 10th Mountain Division for its service in Afghanistan.

With Bloomberg News